VIDEO FOR WHY I WROTE THE BOOK
I wrote the book because I wanted to give women who are going
through an incredibly difficult period in their lives the opportunity to
know what to do to get over it. As I know what it means to live with
heartbreak on a daily basis and the affect this can have on others
around you, I wanted to make sure that there was a book that could
walk you through the steps that I have taken to finally overcome the
wounds of my past.
When I was going through my own divorce, I wish there had been
a book that could have given me the steps and that would have
streamlined the process so that I didn’t have to hold onto the pain for
as long as I did. Because of this, I wanted to write this book so that
you don’t struggle as long as I did.
A divorce or a breakup can be a very traumatic experience and if
not healed properly, can keep you attracting and re-creating similar
relationships in the future and will definitely stop you from being
present in the next.
IS there any wonder that 70% of second marriages don’t work?
Carrying the unhealed grief can also have detrimental affects on your
work, health and relationships to your children.
Even if you don’t have children, not healing properly could have
your children that you decide to have in the future, repeat the same
However your divorce or breakup and the relationship you have
towards your ex can also be a huge gift and the start to your own
awakening. By following the steps and reading the stories that I
have mapped out in the book, you will discover how your divorce
and break-up can be the perfect catalyst towards your freedom and
There is nothing in the book that I haven’t done, I have made all
the mistakes under sun that keep me struggling in the pain and I
definitely don’t want that for you. I streamlined the process and came
up with a 7 Step process called S.H.I.F.T so you can express, release
and move on.
Committing to letting go
S – Seeing your reflection in your ex
H – Healing your conscious and unconscious story
I – Inquiring to challenge your assumptions
F – Focusing internally to reduce the inner and outer conflict
T – Transforming your guilt of the past and fear of the future into
Sharing and Supporting others to move on
You will finally be able to say goodbye to your ex and move on.
Having walked this path and having seen my clients do the same, you
will no longer have to struggle on your own any more.
HERE YOU WILL SEE WHY I WROTE EACH CHAPTER
WHY CHAPTER 1 VIDEO
WHY CHAPTER 2 VIDEO
WHY CHAPTER 3 VIDEO
WHY CHAPTER 4 VIDEO
WHY CHAPTER 5 VIDEO
WHY CHAPTER 6 VIDEO
WHY CHAPTER 7 VIDEO